I want a good man to enjoy my rest of my life time, not short time. nobody can beat me in anyway. 其实我的想法很纯粹正如我一开始说的那样,并没有tianjin先生你想的那么龌龊.为什么人总喜欢把简单的问题复杂化呢? 如果你那么有正义感的话,你应该鄙视那些把感情当游戏的人.我不知道你是否曾经受过伤害,但是不是所有的女性都这样.我很担心你是否能听懂我的意思,因为跟一个不懂得尊重女性的大男人说尊重是一件很难的事情.

TO:Tianjin I don't know why you have prejudice against me. Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, u r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally. People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when u cannot change, u have to choose to find something to make yourself happy. I always believe that there exists a place where reality can not find me. there, the dream is very close. Just as I believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that u will remember forever until u die. U can recognize her immediately. I often have the same dream. In the dream, I am running and searching. They say I shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. Maybe I have to take a risk, coz maybe I will die in the way of searching. So dare u to go? There is someplace that u once go and would not like to leave and some one that u would only meet once in ur whole life.

Let's be realistic. Who doesn't want to marry a beautiful girl? Who doesn't want to marry a handsome boy? then what's wrong with anyone honestly strives to seek for their ideal companion? your statement here seemed to contradict what you said at the first place. you have indicated here that every jack should have his own jill, if you truly meant what you said here, you should not have said what you said earlier. everyone including yourself deserves a fair chance to choose how they find their love. if you have anything creative and encouraging, be my guest, otherwise i won't go on with you like this again. chinese surviving in an alien country is a big job already, we should all help out when needed, never look down on your own brothers and sisters, you may one day need help and i believe you will get help if you treat others with respect now.

I am looking for the right man to get married and start a familly. Do you have the same aspiration and thinking with me? Please let me know... E_mail: nichole_c_h@hotmail.com

祝你好运吧！我也没结婚，但好女孩好像都不会找我。。。

婚姻是神圣的，只可以建立在爱情的基础上。 因为钱或身分结婚的，还不如去做妓女。 忠恳，如果真心相爱，身份本来就属于她的. 连婚姻都可以做假欺骗这样的人有根本没有什么可信. 我们的身份是近１０来年的辛苦努力换来的. 现在大陆出来的，都想走超近路，空降个身份. 有本事去哄哄白人嘛，又不是不会英文. 还有近３亿人呢，个个都有身份有钱. 简直是败坏了华人在美国的名声.

Good quality girl don't have to find a husband online, get out and find one in real life. agree with u

drop me a line to yanguijiang@gmail.com ,. 43 single, 5'11 live at LA .

Nicole, I support you although that I am a dummy... I look down those people who posted their negative point of view, before give people any fair chance. If they don't trust the internet friendship, people quality why they want to join to the cyber to expose themselves? Isn't that conflict personality? Double standards?不是自相矛盾吗? She (nicole) may be your future wife... HAHA Don't forget the world is BIG yet small too.. 应该心存厚道.. Any comment can post here or write to dummy500@live.com Wish you all well!

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男子花光积蓄资助女友上学 身患绝症后被抛弃(图) 文章来源: 中国网 于 2008-08-28 09:05:51 给 中国网 发送悄悄话 敬请注意:新闻取自各大新闻媒体，新闻内容并不代表本网立场！ 男子花光积蓄资助女友上学 身患绝症后被抛弃(图) 中国网 为资助女友上大学，他花光了所有的积蓄。如今，他身患脑瘤无钱医治，女友得知他的病情后却转身离去，今年国庆将结婚嫁人…… 追女友花光三万元积蓄 昨日，廖旭友告诉记者，之前他在四川省平昌县的一所中学食堂做厨师，小丽(化名)在当地上卫校。一次，小丽来这所中学看朋友，认识了廖，两人随即确定了朋友关系。从那以后，廖旭友主动承担了小丽的学费和生活费。 “小到她烫头发，大到学费开支，只要她开口我都会给她。”昨日，廖旭友给记者传真了他给女友小丽开的存折账户复印件。存折上显示，从2006年2月到2007年12月，小丽一直从这张存折上提钱，数额由100多元到2000元不等。 “只要钱不够花了，小丽就会催我去打上，因为深爱着她，所以我没有介意，这样把以前做厨师存下的两三万元积蓄都花光了。”2007年，小丽在廖的资助下顺利读完卫校。今年，她来到重庆江北区的一家医药公司工作。 身患脑瘤的廖旭友，目前在綦江老家休息 为分手 女友换掉手机号 今年年初，廖旭友因患脑瘤住进了重庆市一医院。“她只来医院看我一次就走了，当时说要和我分手。”更让他心痛的是，为断绝和廖旭友的关系，小丽干脆把电话号码换掉了。 廖旭友的脑瘤手术至少要8万元，由于他收入不高，积蓄又花在了谈恋爱上，在支付了两万多元的手术费后，他只好出院回到綦江老家。 廖旭友：我要把资助她的钱要回来 “我现在还不够惨吗，连眼睛都看不清楚了。”昨日，廖旭友对记者表示，要将女友告上法庭，要回以前资助女友的费用。“她做得那么绝，我也醒悟了，当初耍朋友不过是为了我的钱而已。” “女友”小丽：给钱是你自己愿意 记者随后通过廖旭友联系上小丽，电话那边一听是记者，矢口否认自己叫小丽。5分钟后，机主打给廖旭友，此时对方又变成了小丽。她告诉廖旭友不要再来骚扰她，她并不喜欢他。当廖要求小丽退还他资助的费用时，小丽当即拒绝并称“给钱是你自己愿意”。记者后来再拨打该号码时，已提示关机。 “女友”妹妹：姐姐国庆节嫁人 最后记者联系上小丽的妹妹，妹妹表示，小丽国庆节就将嫁给她公司里的一名同事，希望不要再去打扰她。 律师说法：资助属赠与行为 这些钱不能返还 律师蒲万纯表示，廖旭友的资助行为属于赠与行为，他是自愿负担女友的学习、生活费用，而这费用不属于聘礼彩礼，他与女友在恋爱期间也没有形成婚约，这些钱是不能返还的。他认为，这个纠纷属于道德范畴。

诚然,社会变了,人也变了,而今我惊奇的发现我真的已经跟不上社会变化的脚步了. 爱情本来就是容不得半点欺骗的,玩火终究会自焚. 可悲的世界啊!你不认识我,我不认识你,但我们之间却有了误会. 我还不至于愚蠢到为了钱和身份而忘了自己的幸福. 不管怎么样，我改变不了别人，我只能改变自己，让自己变得更好，更好．．．

婚姻是神圣的，只可以建立在爱情的基础上。 因为钱或身分结婚的，还不如去做妓女。